Step 9: Recap
Step 9 was about transforming your relationship with exercise, leaving the excuses in bed, and stepping into action—whether you’re feeling motivated or not.
Here’s the breakdown on what we covered:
Part 1: Why Exercise Matters
Exercise isn’t just about looking good naked although that’s a decent side effect.
Exercise is the ultimate allrounder for your health.
Mental Benefits: Exercise is the best antidepressant there is. It sharpens focus, boosts memory, reduces anxiety, and helps with mood disorders like ADHD. It even protects your brain from cognitive decline as the years fly past.
Physical Benefits: Think better heart health, stronger muscles, a leaner physique, and a body that’s ready to handle the stress of life’s nonsense.
Stress and Energy Management: Exercise is your strategy for burning off stress and topping up your energy levels.
But you need to know this; It’s got to be something you enjoy—or at least something you can show up for, even on the days you’d rather do anything else.
Whether it’s weightlifting, walking the dog, or Zumba (yes, Zumba), find what fits your life and makes you feel good, were not judging.
Part 2: The Motivation Myth
Motivation is like your unreliable mate who shows up when it’s convenient but ghosts you when you really need them.
You don’t need motivation to take action—you need discipline.
Here’s the what you need to know.
Positive Action Fuels Momentum: Start small, take a single step, and watch how progress inspires more positive action.
Negative Visualisation: When you’re struggling to exercise, imagine the consequences of doing nothing. Then flip it and focus on the positives of taking positive action.
Momentum Over Motivation: Habits and discipline don’t rely on “feeling like it.” They get the job done regardless.
You don’t have to be motivated to move forward.
You just need to take the first step, no matter how small.
Part 3: Evo-43: The Busy Parents Ultimate Guid To Training
Life is chaos, no fucking doubt about it, especially when you’ve got a family. Work, school runs, bedtime battles—it all adds up, and exercise feels like the first thing to fall off the list.
Evo-43: The Busy Parents Ultimate Guide to Training. It’s a 16-Week framework designed to guide you through your training around the chaos you’re living in, helping you:
Drop 12-24 pounds.
Feel stronger and more confident.
Boost your energy levels to keep up with the kids.
Realise just how capable you are when you commit to yourself.
No fluff, no BS—just real, simple and effective workouts designed to fit into your busy life.
And the best part? You get a 30% scholarship for being part of Rethink Sweet. It’s my decision to give you the 30% scholarship to put out some good into the world and help busy, stressed out, overwork and overstimulated parents take back control of their training, health and wellbeing.

The Big Takeaway
Step 9 wasn’t just about exercise—it was about taking control.
Exercise doesn’t have to look a certain way; it just has to work for you.
Motivation isn’t the starting point—it’s a by-product of action.
With Evo-43: The Busy Parents Ultimate Guide To Training, you have the framework and the tools to make consistent exercise a reality, even in the beautiful chaos of family life.
Your body, mind, and future self are counting on you.
Now, go make it happen.
See you in the next section, where we’ll bring all the previous 9 steps together and get on your way to becoming the beast thats waiting to show up.